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sorry........ its a word i've used frequently in the past 2 days. the word sorry will be with me for a long long time. i have caused alot of pain and trouble for many people, i have broken the hearts of my family, friends and all who truly care about me. im sorry. i want to apologise once again to justin, he's family, he's recording lable and to justin fans. im sorry.
for the mistakes that i've done, for all the wrongs that i've done, i will take full responsibility, whatever it may be ,i will accept. i cant ask for forgiveness from anybody....... as i still dont know whether i myself can forgive myself.
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如果有人看了 還信的話
我覺得那个人都蠻傻的
不要裝作好像已經知道發生什麼事
假的報導 和 真的報導 應該懂分吧.
不如留個msn一齊談談吧~~~
I will wait for your come back. Don't give up. I like yr music, yr voice touching so much.
May God blesses you all the ways. If possible, go and seek our Lord, our God, our Jesus, Pray to Him, He can help. Pray for you.
许常德给你的劝告
(我在网上某个专栏看到的, 写得很诚恳, 不知道你有没有看到?)曹格的壓力
能寫並唱出背叛的曹格，第一次在台北酒後出事時，我並不驚訝。因為從他的歌中我很容易聽到他心中那被挖得很痛的縱深嘆息，那是一種經歷過殘酷現實的力道，不是從閱讀得來的感悟。所以我猜他是很壓抑又爆烈的、是很兄弟樣又脆弱的。
「金曲歌王」曹格23日在香港中環上演全武行，他被狗仔隊拍到他踹他孩子的乾爹歌手側田。新聞搶佔頭條，並登上各電視媒體，整天反覆播出動粗過程。對於一直想在香港發展的曹格，好不容易趁金曲歌王的頭銜有了起飛的可能，所以他趕在第一時間很誠懇地道歉，還考慮找心理醫生來學習放鬆情緒，並想戒酒。媒體不放過曹格的太太，她說事後並未和曹格連繫，目前選擇相信老公會成熟面對，強調動手就是不對。
像曹格會酒後衝動的藝人其實不是太少，這種人愛講義氣、敏感疑心、黑暗孤獨。他們最紅最忙碌的時期，有可能也是他們最容易犯大錯的時期，因為這樣的個性最容易被朋友蠱惑、也是狗仔隊的最愛，難怪狗仔隊早就準被好鏡頭一一錄下。
道歉是必要的，但道歉之後的調整不能空談。
我建議曹格能給自己一些戒條，比如不在家以外的地方喝酒，比如少教一些朋友。能讓他廣為人知的是作品，並非社交。每個月給自己幾天閉關的時間，寫歌、練唱。對於乍紅的年輕藝人，還是那句老話：少犯錯，就多得分。曹格在記者會一再強調，沒有理由，都是他的錯。但還是講了兩遍他的小時候的孤單經歷，我不懷疑他的說法，但這可能是他的求救訊號，也許經紀公司要正視他的情緒管理問題，不然有可能再犯。我相信這個新聞很快會平息，畢竟是擦槍走火的意外，而且曹格的率直勇敢承擔的道歉很有說服力！
說真的，在演藝圈的紅人，天天被狗仔盯著的感受是又喜又苦的。不被盯了，就可能表示你不行了；盯上了，遲早會讓你變成疑心病特重的怪人！對於那些沒法好好控管情緒的人，在批評他們的同時，也該給他們一些體諒，畢竟沒有那些陰暗的經歷，我們就聽不到他們把愛從地老天荒處抓著最後的良心娓娓道來的勇氣。
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I dun know if this is yr own personal blog but I really hope that it helps to pass you my heart feel words. I am a Malaysian like you, knowing you back from you very old Album <Gary>, I like all 10 songs that you sang, especially < 你我之间>, I had heard that CD too many times until it was damaged. I still remember a colleague of mine ask me, “ Who is he? Gary? Local singer? Dun know you like local singer as well.” But you song just nice and I like it so much, That is 9 years ago. Many years back when I was on tour to Singapore, I was surprise to see your new album <superwoman> and I had bought it and glad that you had your new album again. Later of the years, glad that you had made a terrific song <背叛> and I m madly happy when u won the 金曲歌王, but frankly speaking I wasn’t surprice you won that award as I believe that you deserve that as you got that talent. Recent event on news that you flight with Justin, I feel very sad on it as you are destroying yrself. I believe you can become Jacky Cheung 2nd 1 day, as you got that skill and talent but alcohol will destroy you world so PLEASE stop drinking. Think of yourself, think of your family, think of your friends and think of your fans. Remember, think before you act, think before you drink.
God bless you!
一直在想是不是你壓力太大，還是側先生說了什麼話，使你有那麼大的舉動。
嗚嗚。。。其實你每次喝酒都出緋聞。。。
希望你能戒酒~~~~~~~加油！！！！我們支持你！！！直到永遠！~~~~~~~
上次湘晨报，鉨還叫我再去看你HK的演唱會。我答應你了。結果 取消了。。有點難過。。
希望有機會你再來HK紅館開。。。我們廣東歌迷團期待著~~~
等你休息好了。。。。。。就再次讓我們知道 你不是一個會認輸的人
盡全力再飛起來 向世界證明你的存在 努力過的汗水 不斷灌溉美好未來。。
給我們 世界唯一的你。。 曹格gary！
曹格國際歌迷會-廣州 milk
you also confront your mistake so bravely like a man, i believe #411 asafaf is someone with no balls. he is a shame of hk and should learn to be a man too.
i can see you are a good man. even though i just began to know you but i really like you and will support you!
i still to advocate you
However really hoped very much you can stop drinking
:( Is sad for you.....
everyone must have done something wrong in their life that they regret. it just because you're a celebrity, things just magnified 10 times more. and yes i do agree that you did something wrong this time and there aren't any excuses, but the only thing you can do now is learn from your mistakes. once you reach that point and learn from your past, it'll make you a better and mature person. i'm sure you're able to do it and i have faith in you. i'll be looking forward in seeing you in calgary on oct 22. i'm really excited to hear your live performance! anyways, take care and you do have your fans and family supporting you through this. i'm sure you're able to make it through and become a better person! take care
msn我已經留在你的留言板裡了
自己去看吧(別跟我說你找不到....)
話說...你不是t1ffany嗎！
又想找我聊天啦！！
我跟我的朋友永遠支持你
加油!
別再喝酒了!他會傷身的!
remember, ur fans will be with u all the time.
dun give up
waiting for ur new songs
tk care
support from KL-Syd-Lon.
you know.. there are lots of people support you and we all hope that you can overcome this situation. Curing your 'disease' is really good for your future*
I hope you will have a brilliant future in your musical field. I look forward to your great songs. SUPPORT :)
u really did a big mistake...
i dont think u are mature enough for acting as an artist....
think about it, ok?!
i hope u will get the answer at the end...
我挺你！！
事情的真相沒人知道!!!
什麼叫丟人現眼?!!
你眼紅人家多久阿?!一開始沒看好他?
他ㄉ才華你是都看不到尼?!你就只看的到人家的負面?!
我看你盼很久吧?你心裡有病?人家的好你看不到?
你是神?!你是都不會犯錯?!不要笑死人了!!!!!!!!!
就只會落井下石嗎?
曹格加油!!我永遠支持你ˋˊ
就算真的是对方的错, 那并不是一句’失控’就可以用拳头解决问题的, 可见肤浅&自私的是你的偶像….. 也并不是说我是马来西亚的人就一定得好像你们这般盲目地支持他….
看来你的BOLEH = MALAYSIA BOLEH 是吧．．．． 还真的是呢．．．． malaysia boleh FIGHT!!!
#430 =.= 我干嘛要眼红你的偶像．．．． 如果他真的是那么有才华， 那就是他自己亲手毁了他自己的前途．．．．我没病， 可你的偶像就真的是心里有病了，连他自己也承认了．．．．你如果是这么爱他的话， 倒不如努力地支持他去看心理医生和鼓励他戒酒不是更好吗？免得他又再继续疯下去．．．．
Who's your rival?
you shouldn't beat your fellow artist...you all are mandarin pop singersyou should use your ability to push up the level of mandarin music..
our rival should be the westerners, not ourselves
make some really cool music to beat their music, our music have been in their influence for such a long time now...
I hope we can eventually have chinese who make into Billboard and Grammy's award.
as you can c you cant drink.it will cost a lot of trouble.
so just dun drink lah. i love your song.hope you can change the habit of yours.
all the best.
i believe all of us must can perdon u!
i think justin had perdon u le,
maybe had some useless pp said something about u
but your fans inclued me will always support u as u r a best single indeed!
jia you!
don't be feel sad,
your fans will always besides u!
Hi, I think since you are not Gary's fan then leave him alone... this blog should be a space for his fans to leave some encouraging notes for him. I know you might have felt extremely angry and upset cos he had brought 'shame' to msians. but i personally am curious why you want to do personal attacks here by criticising him and make him feel even worst just bcos he is a msian singer? how many times must we be reminded that singers/actors are also HUMANS? i agreed with -becka- that just bcos they are artistes, their wrongdoings are magnified 10 times or even more compared to normal citizens. And this is ridiculous. People had already apologised to the public through a press conference, can't you just give him some personal space to calm down?
I don't understand why as a HUMAN BEING, you had to countlessly blame and criticizes someone. In case you are unaware of sth, your damage done to Gary by shooting awful remarks is even worst than those media reports we had seen for the past few weeks. Think through it carefully, and I hope you care for one's feelings before you say or do sth next time.
Personally, i don't think leaving rude comments on his blog is bringing glory to msia in any way. It also shows how uncouth you are as a human.
I hope the rest will ignore these comments and support Gary if you want. Peace out!
sup
你要+油喔!!!!!!不要放棄任何人都會有做錯事的時候
只要懂得反省,知道自己的錯便行了
我們還要聽你的好歌啊!!!!~~~~
keepgoing=)
別放棄
Gary,千萬別辜負大家對你的支持，要好好戒酒，好好愛惜自己，也要找醫生幫你！意志對治療是很重要的，你要相信你一定做得到！我們會一直等你的！！
中秋了， 有放開心懷跟家人好好的過嗎？其實看了報道我也想了很多， 我也有很多缺點自己不肯面對， 而且也因爲很成爲某一種人做不到而痛苦，只能說要接受自己，再努力。 我們一起加油吧！><
\\(^_^)//
hey hey,
buck up, don't give up.
i will support u till the end.
just remember to learn from your mistake.
love & peace, right? =)
* mAYmAY here.
Fresh meat
dude seriouslyi know today people like to get drunk and head to pubs but can't u differentiate yourself from those people?
or r u proud to be like that? night club, pub are bad =P
Believe in you and your music, always<3
Don't give up and don't let us down. No matter what happens, we will forever be standing by your side and supporting you.Believe in you and your music, always<3
u are a talented singer, so NEVER GIVE UP..!! i always always support you.. :]
无法适应没有曹格的日子
在曹格醉酒打架事件发生前的几个礼拜,我几乎每天晚上放工回家空闲了就拿他的新专辑"SUPERMARKET"播来听.每当我疲惫或不快乐,曹格的声音就像是一中精神粮食,抚平了我寂寞的心情.可是事件发生后,我有点气他的不争气,因为我是大马歌迷,他又是大马歌手,是我一直以来引以为傲的偶像,一路看着他攀上事业的高峰,可是他却又作出了这样的不良示范,我真的有点失望.
过后我以我自己的方式给了他一个惩罚,一个礼拜罢听他的专辑.
就在昨天,我忍不住又再听回他的音乐,我听着听着,突然哭了.
这些天来心里总是闷闷的,谈不上不高兴,可是就是觉得心中好像有一块拼图不见了,原来我一直还是很喜欢曹格的音乐,没有了他,不习惯.
还记得在我19岁的时候,正在读大学先修班一年级,他在台湾发了第一张专辑"格格BLUE".他的"SUPERWOMEN"常在电台播放,我第一次听就很喜欢他的声音,后来他的创作也一样打动我的心,我就决定了他是我的偶像.
其实之前我也有听周杰伦的歌,我也很喜欢周杰伦,可是当曹格出现以后,我莫名其妙更喜欢他.
我的家庭当时经济不太好,没有自己的交通工具,买他的专辑要搭巴士出市区才买得到.我记得两三年前"SUPERMAN"出世的时候我第一次下雨,取消出门,第二次去到,CD店铺休假.第三次去他们说"卖完了",第四次我妈妈骑电单车载我去另一间CD店问,也没有.结果我是第五次才买到的.所以我很珍惜这张专辑.
他的歌一直陪伴我,直到,我出来社会工作,现在经济能力还不错了,他也当了金曲歌王,亚洲巨星.还结婚生小孩,有自己美满的生活,本来一切都很美好.
可是打架事件出来后,不止对他影响很大,连对我也很大.我常告诉妹妹和朋友我有多喜欢他及他的音乐,现在我不知到要以怎样的方式来得到大家的认同了.
我真希望这一切从来没有发生过,他依然还是我心目中完美的偶像.
之前他常出现一些负面的新闻,不管是真是假,我都不会介意,因为我只喜欢那个曾经在电台里说他艰苦奋斗的经历才有今日的曹格,我只欣赏他的奋斗精神和音乐.
我的日记里,很多页会出现他的名字,写满了对他的崇拜.可是这件事我考虑了很久,始终没有写下来,因为没必要了,它已经深深烙印在心里,永远记得.
我写这么多,只想让曹格知道,我们这些歌迷对他的支持是很大的,我们很爱很爱他,即使是发生了这种事情.虽然他不知道还有多少人会继续喜欢他,继续的支持他,可是我们依然很喜欢他的音乐和他\曹格这个人.
也许很多人会取笑我们说我们笨,这个我们都无所谓了,只要曹格继续唱歌就好了.曹格,能得到我们的支持不是必然的,你也要顾好自己的形象,要做我们的榜样.希望这件事之后,你懂得想清楚,什么是要改的,什么是不应该放弃的?
我昨天真的哭得很累,想了很多,希望你会知道我的用心.衷心的祝福曹格.
Forgiveness does not change the past. But it does enlarge the future. "
Gary
加油!我會繼續支持你!
希望你能夠戒掉''酒''這個東西
要讓別人對你刮目相看喔!
Still support you from my heart.
Lately, I really love your music, Gary, don't be frustrated.
I know you can get through with this.
thank you for bringing us so much happiness on December 11th in Fuzhou...
i'll never forget that day...
miss you so..so..so.. much...
no matter what happen..
b'coz u'r my idol.. ^^
cheer up..!! ^_^
沒事的 ~ 別擔心 !!
冷靜一下吧 ~你在我們心中永遠是最好的 !!
我們永远支持你!
don't give up
now that things have passed I really hope you're more at ease with yourself now. Don't be tooo apologetic, human beings are born to make mistakes. Myself and my mom have been your loyal fan since we first heard about you. Though we now live in the West, we're still extremely pround to have you as a Sabahan standing tall and doing good for the music industry. The industry will lose its color without your presence. Please, do not give up. We love you :)CAN'T WAIT TO SEE YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOONNN!!
something want to tell you
gary:i'm Wade,and i am a Taiwanese.
i think that is ok.
everybody have fault.
not only you,me too.
come on
let it go
we will be fine
i like you
虽然这次是做错了，但谁没犯过错呢。。。
我依然爱死你， 你依然还是我 #1 偶像。
永远支持你！
曹格加油！
我知道，你很好
Gary你好我不知道你是不是會有機會看到這一篇留言，我知道它很有可能會埋沒在你每個粉絲對你的支持關愛裡。不過，沒有關係，我只是想這麼做，即便沒有一個字可以映進你的眼簾，但我相信當你看到時；如果，你有機會看到時，有些文字、感觸，它一定會住在你心裡。
某一天夜裡，睡前，我的耳朵塞進了I pod四百多歌曲，有東洋歌，有西洋歌，有你的歌。
夜裡，特別是睡前，如果還清醒著，就很適合沉澱。每一首歌都有每一首歌的精采，就像每一個人背後都有屬於他自己的故事一樣。然後，下一首，你的歌：寂寞先生，碰撞了我的心。像一個奮力揮拳的拳擊手，重重地、沉沉地，重擊了我的靈魂，我的心。
我想，不是因為覺得寂寞，不是因為詞曲有多麼動人，而是我彷彿看見，漸漸將我逼近死胡同的天花板，竟上演著回憶與現實的拉扯。然後，隨著你的歌，你的好歌喉，悠悠揚揚～悠悠揚揚。
那麼，你唱這歌時，快樂嗎？同時，有沒有想過，它會影響別人？
我不太追星，手上有什麼好聽的歌，就聽什麼。有一個小小的夢想，讓自己做夢，好好生活。然後，我仍舊覺得悲傷，騎車返家的途中若這首歌在我耳裡迴盪，我會覺得傷心。如果我在洗澡時聽到這首歌，我會讓乖乖站著讓蓮蓬頭淋上一會。
我沒有那麼悲觀，好喜歡好喜歡笑，熱愛旅遊，喜歡戶外。生活雖然沒有夜夜笙歌，但工作忙碌充實，還是很有活著的感覺。
洋洋灑灑的說了這一大堆，我知道你也許不會看見，但我希望有一天你會看見。
我覺得你很棒，我很喜歡你。即便過去你做錯什麼。重點也不是，你做錯過什麼。
總之，2009.11.5開始，我喜歡你。然後，在你什麼都沒有的時候，我知道我還會願意為你鼓掌。當然，你不會什麼都沒有。
加油!
好好生活
開心的笑^^
imo
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