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one of my best friend's mother passed away 2 days ago.

i had the honour to meet he's mom afew years ago, though i didnt know her well but she was a nurse and a very kind hearted person. but one thing that i know for sure is that she raised a kind, smart, talented and caring son. her son...... who saved me from taking my own life few years ago while i was going through one of the hardest time of my life.

i never really knew how to thank him apart from telling him how i really treasure him as a friend and a brother.....seeing him go through such a hard time i was helpless.... i felt so sad because there wasnt anything within my power  to take away the pain he is going through...... it got me thinking... sometimes i take things for granted, im selfish, im stubborn, im forgetful..... i dont appreciate people around enough........

so i told  myself today that from now on i will live to appreciate, live to care, live to share and live to love. mother is the most sacred person in the world, i realised that the best way to thank this friend of mine is to truly live a complete life, to love whole heartedly, to share unconditionally. this is the only way to repay the man who saved me.

以下感謝Antonias翻譯:

謝謝你救了我

兩天前我的一位好朋友的媽媽去世了。

幾年前我很榮幸可以遇到他的媽媽,雖然我不是很認識她但是他是個護士而且是個很仁愛的人。但是有件事情我能確定就是他教養出一個善良、聰明、天賦異稟而且又很有愛心的兒子。他的兒子......幾年前在我人生一段最困難的階段把我拯救出來的人。

我從不知道要如何告訴他我有多珍惜他多這個朋友和兄弟.....難著他度過困難的時候我很無助....我很難過我沒有任何的力量去消除他承受的痛 苦......這讓我思考... 有時候我把一些事情視為理所當然的,我自私,我固執,我健忘..... 我不夠感謝我週遭的人。

所以我告訴自己從現在開始,每一刻我都要用我的生命,活著去感謝、去照顧、去分享、去愛(小編這邊略作修改)。媽媽是世界上最被尊敬的人,我了解到去感謝我這個朋友最好的辦法是確確實實的過完整的生活,全心的去愛,無條件的分享。這是唯一報答這個拯救我的人的方法。
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  • nazuki210
  • yeah, it's really a hard time for him with no doubt, but i think you need not to feel helpless, because as you said, you treat him as your best friend and brother in the world, I believe he must think in the same wways as yours. so at this moment, wt you have to do is give him support, sometimes it might not be really a physical support, but mental support, like simply stand next to himi and let him know he will never be alone. I believe that's would be a great great support to him.

    and yeah you are right , everyone should treasure their life since this is the only thing that we could do as a thank you to our mother for rasing us up ~

    don't be sad, cheer up^^

    looking forward to your new album (wish i can join the function on 21/6 ^^ praying...)

    take care~

    amy
  • nazuki210
  • yeah, it's really a hard time for him with no doubt, but i think you need not to feel helpless, because as you said, you treat him as your best friend and brother in the world, I believe he must think in the same wways as yours. so at this moment, wt you have to do is give him support, sometimes it might not be really a physical support, but mental support, like simply stand next to himi and let him know he will never be alone. I believe that's would be a great great support to him.

    and yeah you are right , everyone should treasure their life since this is the only thing that we could do as a thank you to our mother for rasing us up ~

    don't be sad, cheer up^^

    looking forward to your new album (wish i can join the function on 21/6 ^^ praying...)

    take care~

    amy
  • anderson0903
  • 人感到難過時 是上天給我們的考驗
    為的是幫助我們成長 , 所以在那個當下
    並不需要為了自己的無能為力而感到抱歉
    願你平安喜樂
  • daydreamer
  • i agree this is a hard time. some years ago, my friend's mom passed away too. and not knowing what to say or do is a difficult feeling. but, let him know that u're there to support him during this difficult moment might be the best u can do.

    jia you gary!! take care too :)

    ps: err.. nice supermarket manager header picture :)
  • lida66
  • 時常保有感恩的心~
    Gary會寫出這些文字,我相信你不是一個自私的人~
    只是在這個時候,的確很難幫上朋友的忙~
    安慰的話即使說再多,也止不住傷心吧~
    所以..他一定能體會你在關心他的!:)
  • azzss5
  • 我需要翻譯...ˊˋ
  • mAYmAY
  • dear gary -

    i also felt like u when my best friend is undergoing this kind of situation.
    but she never blame me.
    she still treats me as her best friend,
    and i really appreciate that.
    i also want to thank her for being my friend,
    and for loving me all the time.
    it is never too late,
    hope everyone who reads ur article,
    can live a better and meaningful life from today onwards!
    cheers~

    i love my mum` ^^
    and my best friend,
    and GARY.♥

    #.mAY
  • Agnes @HK
  • Gary,

    I'm sorry for your friend's mama.. don't be so sad, i do believe that we'll meet someday again even after we died..

    Take care, both yourself & your family, and your mama..

    Say thank you & I love you to all mama in the world,

    Love,
    Agnes
  • Alice
  • Don't feel helpless! Your job is to support him right now. GO! GO! GO!
  • Grace Lang
  • Gary
    我想你在這裡說的每一句,作為你的朋友,都會收到和感覺到你給他的關心和傷痛,所以你不要自責. 還需要給他多點鼓勵.Love........
  • spyong
  • i know the feeling..my father just pass away 3 months..it's really pain in heart!anyone as friend actually can't help anything...the ONLY can help is timing....true friend will know in heart....
  • kk
  • She's in Haven

    2009 is my grandma 3 years anniversary. All of us are sobbing and sad when she passed away.

    We cant change the pass or what had happened plus there are still a lot of uncertainties in the days to come. Be thankful!

    She is in God's hand now.

  • aiQXin
  • some one wrote such words, I believe it's not a selfish person. I hope your friend will get better in time, of course, with your comfort.
  • mollytbn @ M'sia
  • Don't worry, just support your best friend in whatever way you can.

    We must appreciate life and thank God for what He has given us, treasure the life and live to fullest.

    It's only natural we feel pain when someone we loved passed away...my pa passed away suddenly with heart attack and caught all of us off guard and this pain is beyond can describe. Until now, i am still grieving but i keep it in a corner of my heart and continue my journey of life..

    Let's keep moving....thanks for sharing.
  • shinshin
  • Appreciating can be a motivation sometime...

    Gary...
    people come and ago always...itz hard at first of course...but i believe that he'll get through it someday...at least he learnt how to love and appreciate friends from his mum...
    however the most important thing now are the things learnt from this experience...appreciatin people is a good one...i dont think much people know how to appreciate people around them and which is why the word 'betray' exist...itz good that people learnt something...rather than being blur for the whole life...
    so bless ya...keep in your heart always and i'm sure u can live a much better life in the future...cause i believe that to appreciate is a motivation sometimes...appreciate your friends too cause i think he's worth it...
    take care...
    sincerely, Audrey Chan from Kuching
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  • Antonias
  • Gary!! you are so lucky to have such a good friend who can be with you and save you!! and he let you know to appreciate others!!
    even if you can't do anything to help him but i think it is wonderful you are good friends and if he know you really care about him and was saved by him, he will be very very happy~~ it the real meaning of friends, isn't it?
    what a meaningful article!! C:
  • Antonias
  • 謝謝你救了我

    兩天前我的一位好朋友的媽媽去世了。

    幾年前我很榮幸可以遇到他的媽媽,雖然我不是很認識她但是他是個護士而且是個很仁愛的人。但是有件事情我能確定就是他教養出一個善良、聰明、天賦異稟而且又很有愛心的兒子。他的兒子......幾年前在我人生一段最困難的階段把我拯救出來的人。

    我從不知道要如何告訴他我有多珍惜他多這個朋友和兄弟.....難著他度過困難的時候我很無助....我很難過我沒有任何的力量去消除他承受的痛苦......這讓我思考... 有時候我把一些事情視為理所當然的,我自私,我固執,我健忘..... 我不夠感謝(我確定這裡Gary要表達的是感謝還是欣賞,但我猜是感謝)我週遭的人。

    所以我告訴自己從今天起此刻起我要過著感謝、照顧、感謝、愛的生活(這裡我不知道這樣翻譯好不好)。媽媽是世界上最被尊敬的人,我了解到去感謝我這個朋友最好的辦法是確確實實的過完整的生活,全心的去愛,無條件的分享。這是唯一報答這個拯救我的人的方法。


    (希望我的翻譯跟Gary的本意沒有差很多。)
  • agnes @HK
  • Antonias

    感謝你的翻譯~!
    每一次當有人看不明白的時候
    你就來翻譯了.. (笑)

    看,天還是沒絕人之路的
    總會有人在你的身邊幫助你。

    對了
    對於"i dont appreciate people around enough"一句
    我會覺得是「我對別人不夠接納」

    你覺得呢?:)
  • kym
  • an angle's smile

    all the love tht u guyz hav given, she will feel it. and i'm sure of it. so dont be sad, coz she's now the happiest angle in the world.
  • r123456665
  • gary!!加油!

    我想,你的朋友一定知道你對他的關心,你不用對自己自責,因為他會了解你的.....而且我相信他媽媽也一定很榮幸他兒子認識你這樣的朋友.兄弟!!
    加油!!
  • Antonias
  • 給#20樓的agnes
    我特別在奇摩字典查appreciate 的意思
    vt. (及物動詞 transitive verb)
    1.欣賞,賞識
    Her talent for music was not appreciated.
    她的音樂才能無人賞識。
    2.感謝,感激
    They deeply appreciated his kindness.
    他們對他的好意深表感謝。
    3.體會,領會,察知[W][+(that)]
    I am afraid you have not appreciated the urgency of the matter.
    恐怕你還沒有意識到這件事的緊迫性。
    4.正確地評價,鑑別
    vi. (不及物動詞 intransitive verb)
    1.(土地,貨幣等)增值[(+in)]
    Land will continue to appreciate.
    土地將繼續增值。

    其實我也同意你的說法只是這個字的所有意思裡面沒一個像接納的
    好想直接問Gary哈哈可是我不太敢跟他說話
    上次我們辦活動對Gary真心話時刻我整個超級詞窮超緊張

    "每一次當有人看不明白的時候
    你就來翻譯了.. (笑)"
    其實也沒有只是剛好我發現Gary寫心文章了!!
    我一個字一個字的翻譯可以更了解意思
    如果我只是單純的看英文我可能只是大概了解意思
    所以也是對我自己一種幫助

    阿原你看
    我昨天就翻譯好了也不知道你有沒有看到
    我本來想留言說我累了明天再說
    因為我明天(也就是今天)要去劍潭國小參加活動
    結果超囧的其實是10號
    反正我為什麼會一直認為是11號這是有原因的
    總之我很天兵啊!!
    所以我今天就撲空了!!
    超囧的我家去劍潭國小搭公車五分鐘
    啊!! 星期六再跟你們說這件糗事好了!!
  • sisterbay
  • 如果我是你那朋友,失去了媽媽卻得到一個真正愛我的好朋友,我相信那是媽媽留給我最好的祝福,是媽媽送來的天使。

    你陪他一起流淚走出傷痛,不讓他孤孤單單一個人寂寞面對,就是最大的鼓勵及安慰了。就像他救了你,讓你如今活的精彩,相信他會因你的友誼,也一樣幸福快樂!

    他是你的救命恩人,你是他的天使。 我是支持你的人。 ^ ^
  • caris_tan
  • 珍惜...... 现在我们所拥有的,把最好的留给爱我们的她/他.... 祝福你
  • Antonias
  • OMG!!
    我的翻譯
    被納入文章裡面了!!
    獻醜了!!
    啊!!!太高調了!!
  • papacha
  • 我也感謝你救你的朋友!!!! Gary加油!!!!
  • nana
  • "i will live to appreciation"
    how i hope everyone can appreciate each other more, guess only people like you with this status today will only realize the importance of appreciation.
    many people out there don't appreciate the things around them, and sometimes i'm also one of them. =(


    - R

  • Emily
  • gary...i think i can feel wat your fd is feeling like...
    to lost someone in your life is the hardest thing to forget...
    your fd will need your support, everything will be okay..
    also...everyone is unique...
    i will support you ~
    appreciare wat you have and wat you can do for other.


    -Emily
  • UNIQUE
  • 德瑞寶(THE RAINBOW)關心您的肝功能,請勿忽視定期檢查的重要性。
  • blythe
  • 我是天使
    你媽在天上一定會好好的
    我期望看到地上的人有所改變
    因為在地上要綑綁的在天上也要綑綁
    在地上要釋放的在天上也要釋放
  • powerowen
  • 相信每個人 都賦予一定的能力 因為每次面臨考驗一定有解決的方向
  • cachecache
  • I'm terribly sorry for your friend's loss. I can understand how helpless you may feel at the moment, for not being able to take away his pain. But you can only be there for him now, to listen, to support unconditionally.. and to be strong for him.

    It's cliche, but it's true what they say.. that we tend to take things for granted, until the day we lose them.. Reading your words is a good reminder that I need to rethink about my life - how I want to live it, maximize it, absorb it.. and truly appreciate it for what it's worth and for what it's given me thus far. What you wrote marked me - the part about "live to care, live to share and live to love." I think we all hold ourselves back in someways in our lives.. and I think it's a good time for us to let go.. set ourselves free and live life like there is no tomorrow.
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