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the fact is... i am gary chaw... but im also this " singer on tv, on the radio, on the magazines and the newspaper..." so who am i? ... i try to be myself on and off screen...but can i really do that?? can i drink and smoke on screen..?? NO!! i cant.... so how do i know whether i am the real me... i cant even figure out which gary is the real real gary... tho i try to be real and truthful whenever i can, but the instinct of a man..." selfish, worries, pride and dignity " keeps me from showing more of myself.... so this is my problem. what is your problem.?
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  • 广州小A(鸿)
  • 加油咯...GARY...
  • 广州小A(鸿)
  • 要注意休息咯...广州的时候见...SEE YOU LATER...
  • 广州小A(鸿)
  • 相信自己..TRUST YOURSLEF...
  • 广州小A(鸿)
  • my...problem...is...studying...hahahahaha...<br />
    <br />
    be a University of TCM...tired...<br />
    <br />
    hope to see you soon...<br />
    <br />
  • 广州小A(鸿)
  • 晕...哈哈哈哈哈哈...前5个都系我...哈哈哈哈...<br />
    <br />
    今日难得得闲帮你灌多帖啦...后面歌迷5好闹我啊...<br />
    <br />
  • annnnnn
  • 加油呢
  • yangmei
  • Hi Gary,<br />
    It really hard to want to show your real self 100% in front of everybody . <br />
    Its good to & important to be real & trueful but if you expose your character <br />
    too much, you may give others a chance to hurt you. Take care & really love <br />
    your songs :) JIA YOU<br />
    BEST WISHES from: <br />
    Yangmei ( Singapore)
  • Apple—深圳
  • Gary:不要去想太多,面对镜头你就是个公众人物<br />
    可能你会觉得不自然,可是我们不管镜头下的你还是现场看到的你<br />
    我们都一样会支持,因为那都是你<br />
    真实???真实在现实中还是会失真的<br />
    所以,什么事情都不要去想太多<br />
    只要开心快乐就好<br />
    我们等待着你到内地里..........<br />
    我们会让你看到自己的真实和歌迷们的真实<br />
    <br />
  • 雪群
  • HI GARY,<br />
    歡迎你回來馬來西亞~<br />
    10天的宣傳~<br />
    要好好照顧好自己身體哦~<br />
    <br />
    我會去支持的每一場的演出哦~<br />
    我們到時見咯!<br />
    <br />
    加油!!!<br />
    <br />
    GFC~雪群<br />
  • tender111
  • sometimes, we are ourselves<br />
    sometimes, we are not.<br />
    sometimes, we can do ourselves<br />
    sometimes, we can't.<br />
    sometimes, we know who we are<br />
    sometimes, we don't know.<br />
    this just is life, no one can really know about himself. <br />
    no one can really do himself 100%.<br />
    but, one can live happilly even without knowing himself.<br />
    one can do himself, he is lucky.<br />
    one can't do himself, he know his duty.
  • 悄悄話
  • virgo0828
  • 加油~~~我們會永遠在你身後支持你滴..<br />
  • dearxiaobao
  • this is life<br />
    we couldn't change.so don't care too much about it.<br />
    just relax.take it easy.<br />
    your job is acting.you needn't show real you on screen.<br />
    but it is important that you be real real you on the other place<br />
    take care of yourself <br />
    miss u very much
  • tomemiprozac
  • well, you're a star, you're entitled to hide your real self <br />
    and show the packaged product to everyone. you may not like <br />
    it, but that's the price you have to pay in getting into <br />
    this business. <br />
    <br />
    as for my problem.. i'm too cynical. it's hard for me to <br />
    trust people, and sometimes i wonder if life would be much <br />
    more enjoyable if i trust, easier, more. but then i will <br />
    always tell myself that if i let myself trust others, i'll <br />
    be the one who'll be hurt in the end. so it's better that i <br />
    keep myself safe and prevent others from hurting me. <br />
    <br />
    yeah.. so that's my two cents. gee how depressing. anyway <br />
    good luck for your malaysia tour! i can't go though i'm <br />
    here, cuz i'll be going back to singapore on the day <br />
    itself. LOL fate. -.-<br />
    <br />
  • Wai Fong
  • Hey Gary(:<br />
    <br />
    Don't worry so much about how you should appear <br />
    in front of the media k.. <br />
    Just be yourself!<br />
    Anw u'll always have my support no matter wad!<br />
    Take care!<br />
    <br />
    Wai Fong(Singapore)
  • 悄悄話
  • 悄悄話
  • nessa
  • its hard for u to reallie <br />
    be urself after a while ur in the entertainment <br />
    industry cuz ur company wants u<br />
    to portrait this good boy image u been<br />
    having since the day u started out ur career<br />
    and reallie as ur fans dont reallie kno if u<br />
    drink or smoke wen ur off camera or wen u along at<br />
    home... but reallie being urself is who we truly care...dont be<br />
    someone ur not cuz ur gonna end up reallie hurting urself on the<br />
    inside...someitmes wen u act lyke somebody else is wen u feel lyke<br />
    u dont want ppl to kno ur weakness..<br />
    trying to protect ur self if ur reallie <br />
    stressing out and take a break and <br />
    relax dont over work<br />
    urself health is always important...take<br />
    it easy.. =D dont rest to do everything all at<br />
    once there is always time to get things done<br />
    take carez <br />
    <br />
  • 瑜
  • Gary<br />
    不要想太多<br />
    只要開心就好!<br />
    你的身邊仍然有許多喜愛你ㄉ歌迷阿<br />
    雖然身為一個公眾人物<br />
    有許多事情是無法真實呈現出來<br />
    但不管如何我們還是喜歡你啊<br />
    所以....真的真的不要再煩惱了<br />
  • gary 加油:)<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
  • 悄悄話
  • 悄悄話
  • joanna
  • jiayou chaoge!!!<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    nv post the video taken in singpore?<br />
    singapore fans realli hope to see it.=x
  • 嘎嘎
  • Don't think of too much><<br />
    <br />
    Come on! :)
  • sarahcoghe
  • hi gary<br />
    <br />
    I strongly believe that there is always 2 sides to everything so don't push <br />
    yourself so hard to try to find the 'real' you.<br />
    <br />
    Your first album had pictures of you with cigarette smoke... I don't think <br />
    that really affected your 'image'. Your fans probably already know that you <br />
    drink and smoke so I don't think that's an issue.<br />
    <br />
    One of my problems is that I sometimes hate myself... Do that happen to you <br />
    too?<br />
    <br />
    Think positive and be happy always<br />
    Sarah - GFC
  • Pur*
  • Dear Gary: <br />
           我們喜歡的是你<br />
           所以不管是哪個你<br />
           我們都會喜歡!!<br />
  • sugar
  • don't worry be happy<br />
    everything will be ok ^-^<br />
    <br />
    不管是螢幕上的你或私底下的你<br />
    我們都一樣支持 因為那都是曹格阿<br />
    <br />
    如果想要開心的生活著,就讓自己放輕鬆些<br />
  • Ophelia
  • True fans will accept you for whoever you are.<br />
    It's time fans understand that their idol are also a human.<br />
    I'm a great fan of yours, but doesn't mean that I will smoke <br />
    just because I see you doing it.<br />
    Love your music, love your personality, love you, just you.<br />
    Whatever you do, as long as you be good to yourself.<br />
    Stay true to yourself.<br />
    Most important, be strong and happy!<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
  • 悄悄話
  • 悄悄話
  • 悄悄話
  • sillypopi
  • gary....<br />
    相信自己吧...我們一起努力...<br />
  • 翻譯<br />
    <br />
    事實是,我是曹格.但我也是在廣播, 雜誌, 報紙上的"歌手" 到底我是誰?<br />
    我嘗試在幕前幕後都做自己,可是我真的能做到嗎? 我可以在螢幕上喝酒抽菸嗎? 不行!<br />
    那我要如何知道我是不是真的我?我甚至不知道哪個GARY才是真的GARY了?<br />
    雖然我一直努力要做真實的自我.但是事實上人性的自私, 煩惱,驕傲, 自尊,<br />
    使我無法多表現出真實得自我,這就是我的問題 ,那你們的問題呢?<br />
  • 悄悄話
  • wwenss
  • gary chaw will be gary chaw always, and we love you for who you are.<br />
    <br />
    not being able to show your real self on screen does not necessarily mean <br />
    that you are not being yourself.<br />
    it is just that you have a responsibility to take whenever you are on <br />
    screen, which is to act as a role model and portray a right image so as not <br />
    to influence the impressionable, or even others. but then again, it's your <br />
    life and you have the right to choose how to live it.<br />
    i believe you do know what you want in your life because the gary chaw we <br />
    know, live without regrets. (:<br />
    <br />
    love,<br />
    wanwen (GFC Singapore)
  • wenli1008
  • hi...<br />
    <br />
    gary...<br />
    <br />
    b a artist always like dat...<br />
    <br />
    can't do urself...<br />
    <br />
    u oso can feel dat oledi...<br />
    <br />
    recently many artist always like dat...<br />
    <br />
    try 2 search themself...<br />
    <br />
    but dis road is u choose...<br />
    <br />
    u mz continue 2 complete it...<br />
    <br />
    jz can say 2 u>>><br />
    <br />
    we wan in our life dat can't say really enjoy 2 <br />
    search urself,,,ur happiness...<br />
    <br />
    including me...<br />
    <br />
    so...we wan JIA YOU OO...<br />
    <br />
  • betty692191
  • gary<br />
    加油...<br />
    不管你做什麼<br />
    support u forever^^
  • 小海
  • 大家會一直一直支持著你<br />
    你的努力大家一定都會看到<br />
    只是時間的長短而已<br />
    加油加油<br />
  • whitemocha
  • It's not easy being a celebrity. There's always a trade off between your <br />
    public image and the REAL you. As a fan (btw I absolutely LOVE your voice <br />
    and passion for singing), I appreciate your honesty and emotions. But I <br />
    also think it's quite ok to keep some things private to yourself. There's <br />
    the whole issue of being a positive influence and also maintaining a good <br />
    image so people will continue to support your music. Hopefully you can find <br />
    a good balance between the two and your own comfort zone. Try not to over-<br />
    think the issue. Cheer up!<br />
    <br />
    As for myself, I think the fear of rejection is the big problem at the <br />
    moment. Definitely need to take some risks and try new things. *Note to <br />
    self.* =P
  • Mui Ling
  • hmm...just be normal ba. Your text give me an impression of<br />
    worrying about how others think of you. Whatever the case, don't<br />
    have to worry too much about how others think of you as they are<br />
    not you so they can't decide who you are. <br />
    <br />
    I mean, if someone tell you that you should do this and this, if<br />
    you think its alright, then do it ba. Or else, don't have to<br />
    force yourself to live up to other people's expectations...<br />
    <br />
    By doing this, guess you can "be yourself" le ba?<br />
    <br />
    After all, your one and only task is to continue to jia you with<br />
    making good music and singing good songs, instead of worrying<br />
    too much ;)
  • lynnyahuan84
  • dont think too much...<br />
    just to be yourself...<br />
    go for it....no matter who you are...<br />
    you know...all your fans will always beside you...<br />
    <br />
    Gambateh ne~!!!
  • dear gary,<br />
    <br />
    I am happy to hear from you although I start to worry about<br />
    you after I read your new message.<br />
    It seems to me that you are quite confused now and I hope<br />
    I can do something for you no matter what it takes to do and I <br />
    will do that. But the fact is that I cannot do anything to <br />
    help you except to write you something. It upsets me.<br />
    I hope what I write can help you somehow and that is all I<br />
    hope right now<br />
    you said you worry about not being true self.<br />
    You know no one knows himself or herself 100% <br />
    so dont worry about you are not being yourself because<br />
    maybe you dont even know yourself that much.You are <br />
    growing everyday and you are getting better and stronger<br />
    You are just not used to your star life style.<br />
    Maybe you need A GOAL. A goal makes makes your life meaningful.<br />
    Kandy for Kaohsiung (continued)<br />
    <br />
  • Ken-广州
  • gary~也许这是每一个当艺人必须要面队的~是艺人必修的一课!<br />
  • anyway,<br />
    Just try do right things at right time is more important<br />
    because we are all adults. and we ought to take responsibility<br />
    for our speeches and actions especiall you are in public and on<br />
    screen.<br />
    I think being kind-minded is important and try to help people<br />
    whenever we can is also important.<br />
    (continued)<br />
    I am not smart enough to tell you what to do.<br />
    Just hope you can get over it soon.<br />
    If you feel like talk or cry,<br />
    just feel free to do. dont try to hide your emotions <br />
    because it makes you sadder.<br />
    I hope I can do something for you<br />
    becase I care for you so so much<br />
    Kandy from Kaohsiung<br />
  • 悄悄話
  • 悄悄話
  • Mui Ling
  • And yup, currently my problem is kinda similar to yours.<br />
    Something like peer pressure. But I think I've sort it out after<br />
    typing out that comment - seemed like I've reminded myself too. LOL!<br />
    <br />
    It's like, friends have been telling me I should change my way<br />
    of thinking, the way I dress, etc...; but I've decided - if I<br />
    can change I'll change. I don't like people asking me to do<br />
    things that I'm not comfortable with...<br />
    <br />
    Just my opinion...
  • 悄悄話
  • Laa Laa Boo
  • Gary.. u are GARY!<br />
    <br />
    i love GARY!!<br />
    <br />
    no matter what imagez u are!<br />
    <br />
  • cutedong
  • 你是你阿<br />
    不管你用何表達方式<br />
    管他的<br />
    腦子是同一個<br />
    有時為了自己好<br />
    會做會說一些保護自己的行為<br />
    只要不是傷人就好啦<br />
    人是一體多面嘛<br />
    <br />
    你總是這麼自然<br />
    我們懂得<br />
    <br />
  • ankhtique
  • gary, this problem is being faced by everyone. we always choose<br />
    to present ourselves in the best possible way depending on the<br />
    situation. of course celebs have it much worse as they're under<br />
    scrutiny and have a reputation to uphold.<br />
    <br />
    not showing urself on tv doesn't mean u're not being yourself.<br />
    this is a form of protection. i definitely do see some aspects<br />
    of gary when u're attending events and ur sincerity shows<br />
    through. u just have to find a compromise - how much can u show<br />
    vs how much u are willing to. i'm sure u can find the answer :)
  • ankhtique
  • -continued-<br />
    <br />
    regarding smoking and drinking, i already know that. a lot of<br />
    fans know too. to me that doesn't matter because what i like<br />
    about u is ur personality and music. i respect how u live ur<br />
    personal life according to whatever u deem fit. BUT remember not<br />
    to smoke/drink too much ok? the industry's very hectic so these<br />
    can be stress relievers but they're not good for health. <br />
    <br />
    my problem? the biggest one would probably be searching for my<br />
    goal in life because i'll be graduating from uni soon and still<br />
    unsure of what i want. it doesn't just comes down to my<br />
    interest, it also involves monetary issues. which is why i'm<br />
    both envious of those who have found their goals. (like you!) <br />
    <br />
    rmb ur motto:<br />
    truly spread love, truly spread music!<br />
    <br />
    carpe diem,<br />
    joyce<br />
  • cleo_sun
  • gary``<br />
    “双面人”huh?<br />
    我觉得这也很ok啊..最重要的是让自己过得舒服lah<br />
    我也总是这样...穿梭在外面的世界和自己的小宇宙...<br />
    maybe这是很好的让自己平衡的方法<br />
    不然我会疯...<br />
  • jenLURV3Gary
  • Every1 has issues lah...<br />
    <br />
    thats urr issue but my issue is studyin. my parents have high expectations <br />
    and i have pressure and i eventually expect myself to do something .<br />
    <br />
    i go to a selective school and its hard coz every1 derr is so smart and i aint <br />
    that smart<br />
    <br />
    my besties are all likk smart people and its quite hard to live in that kind of <br />
    society ...<br />
    <br />
    i have heaps of hw and it fully blows me away but urr music really lets the <br />
    stress out of me <br />
    <br />
    so thats why urr my superman<br />
    <br />
    p.s i'm really happy that i'm actualyl sayin dis out <br />
    it dusnt matter if u look at it or not coz i'm happ<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    LUFF UU HEAPS <br />
    <br />
  • Angelius
  • just show all that u can that u are<br />
    <br />
    just like wut u use to say :<br />
    it doesn't matter about the way u sing,<br />
    there'll alwayz be someone who loves u for ur voice<br />
    <br />
    there'll alwayz be people who love u for who u are<br />
    ^^ 加油囉 ~ ~
  • jenLURV3Gary
  • heyy dont smoke and drink 2much lahh...<br />
    bad forr uu ^^ <br />
    <br />
    BE GARY<br />
    JUST BE U MATE ! <br />
    <br />
    BE OUR <SUPERMAN> <br />
    <br />
  • 翻譯<br />
    真實?或是裝真實?GARY是真的GARY嗎?<br />
    事實是,我是曹格.但我也是在廣播, 雜誌, 報紙上的"歌手" 到底我是誰?<br />
    我嘗試在幕前幕後都做自己,可是我真的能做到嗎? 我可以在螢幕上喝酒抽菸嗎? 不行!<br />
    那我要如何知道我是不是真的我?我甚至不知道哪個GARY才是真的GARY了?<br />
    雖然我一直努力要做真實的自我.但是事實上人性的自私, 煩惱,驕傲, 自尊,<br />
    使我無法多表現出真實得自我,這就是我的問題 ,那你們的問題呢?<br />
    <br />
    <br />
  • lovelyviolet
  • dear gary,<br />
    <br />
    please please please dont worry yourself too much...<br />
    we know that you are trying to be as real as you can, as truthful as you <br />
    possibly can...if fact, you are one of the most truthful person in the <br />
    entertainment industry, that is why i will support you always...<br />
    we know that you want to show us who you really are, the real and true <br />
    gary....and we are also satisfied by the fact that you are trying to <br />
    hard....so please do not give yourself too much stress...the fact that you <br />
    do not hide anything from us is enough for us to know that you are a very <br />
    genuine person...<br />
    <br />
    ---to be continued---
  • lovelyviolet
  • ---continued---<br />
    <br />
    this world is a cruel world, hence there is a need for everyone and not <br />
    just people who are in the public eye, to keep things private to protect <br />
    themselves from being hurt...the most important thing is to be able to find <br />
    someone who is able to share this burden with you, someone whom you dont <br />
    need to worry about being hurt or betrayed...someone who will support you <br />
    no matter what happens and will not judge you... <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    sylvia (from melbourne)
  • Impossible and shouldnt show 100% of you on screen. Sometimes<br />
    you should proctect yourself, friends and family. As long as <br />
    you dont do something really negative on the screen, that should be <br />
    fine. So not too worry about which one is the real of Gary! <br />
    Again, not drink and smoke too much, ok. <br />
    <br />
    Be there with you all the time.<br />
  • hippo3
  • gary<br />
    maybe everybody must do this<br />
    this can survive in this society<br />
    this is everybody problem (maybe)...<br />
    mm.. i always wish you be happy<br />
    always support you<br />
    gary~ go go go~~
  • justdudu
  • It is a problem for everyone, I think.<br />
    I have to hide the true me in front of other people, coz I<br />
    have to be a nice person for others. but that is not all about<br />
    me. So I only be true me in my room, this space without other <br />
    people. <br />
    you are a singer, so you have few time to be true Gary. That<br />
    make you sad, I don't know how to comfort you, just be happy.<br />
    no matter who you are, the true Gary or not, we are always <br />
    support you. and I think you are the most true singer.<br />
    keep going, maybe the busy schedule make you feel you lose youself.<br />
    I think you don't lose it, you are Gary.<br />
    You post this article show you that you are true Gary.<br />
    ha~<br />
    I don't know what I talk about. cheer up<br />
    your song make us happy, and we want you are happy too^^
  • 小如
  • 曹格老大:<br />
    <br />
    「沒有人能真的把全部的自已全部展現出來!」<br />
    <br />
    電視上,私底下,我相信你都有把自已的一面拿出了,<br />
    不用擔心夠不夠真,因為你真的有用心了,我們也感受到了。<br />
    <br />
    常常在電視上看到你會常看工作人員一下,怕你的下一步會給公司麻煩,<br />
    在簽唱會上,卻很大方的和歌迷互動,表示你也很細心,關心別人。<br />
    <br />
    大家都看在眼裡!所以我們才會這樣支持你。<br />
    只要是人,都會有缺點和優點的!!!不用太擔心啦~~~~~~<br />
    <br />
    其實不確定你是否會看這篇留言,但,仍想寫給你看^_^<br />
  • elvynia
  • hate to say but reading this article makes me happy!<br />
    good to see famous people having an identity crisis too!<br />
    hope you find the you, you are looking for!<br />
    <br />
    艾薇 xoxo
  • superjen
  • i know its hard .....to be urself in front of the screen .<br />
    <br />
    thats wat uu needa giv out from being a [STAR]<br />
    <br />
    we all hope to get to knkow u better coz we all luve u <br />
    we may not noe uu thata well but yeahh... >.<<br />
    <br />
    luff <SUPERMAN>
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  • 小蓉
  • 勇敢的去面對<br />
    會得到答案的<br />
    加油唷<br />
  • superjen
  • omgg dis is badd =s<br />
    <br />
    heyy gary are u ab blood or a blood...haha >.<<br />
    <br />
    sorry randomn..but hope uu can answerr in next blog entry ^^<br />
    <br />
  • superjen
  • OMG OMG 0.0 <br />
    <br />
    urr bday is one daii after mine !!!!<br />
    <br />
    omg omg !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<br />
    <br />
    jeN luFFs <SUPERMAN>
  • Beyardo
  • 的確,私下才能顯現出最真實的自己!                            <br />
    以往的教育概念,使我們在公共場合下拘束自己,但……那也是自己,              <br />
    畢竟你所做的、你所說的……都是由Gary所發出,是Gary的行為,它不屬於任何    人,<br />
                                                 <br />
    在廣播上的曹格、在雜誌上的曹格、在報紙上的曹格、甚至在私下的曹格、都是獨一無二,沒有任何人<br />
    能取代,因為那是由你的思想……不論是開放也好或是拘束也好,都是經由你所發出……<br />
                                                 <br />
     某話說的好,人生就像是一個舞台,而不同人扮演相同的角色一定會有不同的效果、給人不同的感<br />
    覺,因為你不是他、他不是你,你就是你自己,做好在每個時刻需要做的事情,依照所限定的規則依自<br />
  • jesse
  • we all behave differently in front of different peoples. but does that make <br />
    us hypocrites? there are different codes of behavior present within <br />
    different social groups. and as a form of protection, we disguise ourselves <br />
    such that only what is presentable to that particular social group is <br />
    revealed. <br />
    <br />
    i guess that's how we all are. is it to be called hypocrisy or EQ? haha. <br />
    for me, i guess the most important thing is that i don't do anything that <br />
    goes against my personal beliefs. <br />
    <br />
    then again, why do we tend to hide or disguise certain facets of ourselves? <br />
    isit because we're ashamed of them? or that we lack the courage to stand <br />
    firm for what we believe or for who we really are? haha. just a wandering <br />
    thought. <br />
    <br />
    what is my problem? haha. dear gary, you got me thinking. i guess i lack <br />
    the courage to pursue my dreams. and i end up watching my dreams go into <br />
    history. for that, i salute you. for you have done what i couldn't. =)<br />
    <br />
    truckloads of love. wahaha.<br />
    jesse. <br />
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  • JiaYi
  • Dun k wat is your problem,we will always always always support u,<br />
    help u!!<br />
    Cheer up!Get ready for the promo tour at Malaysia..<br />
    We will always always support u!<br />
    U are our superman~<br />
    MuaXx..<br />
  • 人畢竟不是完美的..總會因為外在原因而受到拘束..<br />
    <br />
    GARY.你想表現更真實的我...可以用你最擅長的東西<br />
    <br />
    就是音樂..可以讓我們更認識你..就不要想太多了..<br />
    <br />
  • jppy
  • to be a celebrity( although its not ur choice ,cos u just want to sing but <br />
    that's the fact)<br />
    u have a responsibility toward the society. u are a public person <br />
    an idol to so many fans , some even as young as 12 yrs old,<br />
    or maybe younger? u are expected to be a role model to them cos u <br />
    can influence them greatly.<br />
    <br />
    u have chosen this road,u have a dream that is to compose songs<br />
    that can help others .its a big and meaningful dream,so this is<br />
    just a small scrafice that you have to made . <br />
    when u are in public sometimes u have to put on a mask, could u so it?<br />
    i think with ur will power to achieve ur goal u can do it!!<br />
    u are doing a great job by giving out positive message during all ur <br />
    interviews<br />
    i really believe you can !!!<br />
    so don't think to much which is the real u as long as everything<br />
    that u do are towards ur dream....ie SPREAD LOVE SPREAD MUSIC!!<br />
  • j1989323
  • 真正的你...<br />
    不管是公眾人物或是平凡人<br />
    都有雙面或是多面<br />
    這是很難避免的<br />
    不只是你 我想有更多人找不到真正的自己<br />
    找到真正的自己 我想未必是好事
  • GIN73
  • 我們的問題~是~!!看不見最初的你!!<br />
    當自己~是最開心的<br />
    不管~你我會變怎樣~<br />
  • tokeidesu
  • Don't think too much, that's all I want to say.<br />
    <br />
    Life is not easy for any of us.<br />
    <br />
    Please remember that.<br />
    <br />
    Ps. Tonight, I'll send my guardian angel to protect and watch over you, <br />
    filling your sleep with pleasant dreams.<br />
    <br />
    God Bless,<br />
    <br />
    note (thailand fanclub)<br />
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  • liang730
  • 加油八!!<br />
    我們會一直支持的<br />
    希望,,<br />
  • regina1988
  • hey dude~~<br />
    heard dat u really ate my spaghetti just now?!!<br />
    thanks a lot...i still tot u will leave it aside...hehe!!<br />
    thanks a lot, it ady turn cold, so not really nice to eat!<br />
    anyway, u post this message after u reach ur hotel?! so fast....<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    problems problems<br />
    who don't have?<br />
    <br />
    smoke in front of ur fan?<br />
    u did it yesterday in front of mi and mei wad....<br />
    don worry too much...<br />
    wait, is it bcos of tis u get nag by the 'boss'?!<br />
    <br />
    the instinct of man<br />
    u are rite...<br />
    human nature<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    me? problems? a lot?<br />
    which one u wan to know? wakaka.....<br />
    study<br />
    money<br />
    and....most importantly<br />
    too little time for too many things!<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    wei, have a good rest after your photo shooting and interviewing schedules <br />
    etc!<br />
    u have to be in 'war' soon...<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    oh ya, please tell mi tat u did not read my notebook!!!<br />
    omg...lucky nothing embarassing in my notebook!<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
    regina<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    <br />
  • shuhan
  • 人要當自己很難<br />
    因為社會 外在環境<br />
    所以慢慢去習慣有2個角色的自己吧!<br />
    我知道人還是要當自己才快樂<br />
    但也許某些時候我們不是自己<br />
    so...be happy~<br />
    <br />
    工作加油!別想太多~<br />
    than my problem is life<br />
    i want different life...haha<br />
  • smallprawn
  • hi!<br />
    <br />
    mr pessimist...hope u don't wear ureself down <br />
    while trying to figure out ure real self yup...:) <br />
    <br />
    i believe there's aso pple out there brainstorming <br />
    e same questn as you do...few pple (or mayb <br />
    none)...i think...haha...may have e "gift-of-being-<br />
    true-self-ability" bahx..;p pple often have to <br />
    behave to meet & conform to e expections of <br />
    others...im not an exception as well...n esp when <br />
    u're an artist n under observe by many others, u <br />
    may b facing even greater pressures..wld b tired <br />
    but is a tradeoff for ure career..isn't it? <br />
    <br />
    try relaxing a bit n enjoy ureself...creating <br />
    songs that bring delights to others n @ e same <br />
    time fulfill ure own music desire n dreams? n <br />
    reduce alcohol & cigar intakes as well...<br />
    no gd;reduce;healthier!!! :P<br />
    <br />
    <br />
    is hard to be "real-self"...jus dont do harm to <br />
    others...n be happy!!! keke!! one lived oni <br />
    once...dun let worries flood ure memories <br />
    permanantly...temporary okie lah...haha! cheerios!
  • 夢幻小魚兒
  • 摁哼~<br />
    你要抽菸喝酒~ 可以阿!<br />
    那你有沒有想過很多人為你付出過,<br />
    家人、工作人員、朋友、歌迷??<br />
    <br />
    不管你怎麼樣 就給我『學習』<br />
    不要辜負你自己<br />
    你要感謝你傷你個人、惡劣的環境<br />
  • pummi781230
  • Gary加油!!<br />
    Just be yourself!<br />
  • C Wing
  • This is life~ And life is not easy~ ^ ^<br />
    Gary, try to be more relax~ > ^<br />
    <br />
    My problem.....I have to attain the ALevel exam in HK next year~<br />
    But I am already very tired of studing~ That's not an easy job~<br />
    So, let's work hard together~ > ^<br />
    <br />
    C Wing from HK
  • chantel
  • my problem is SCH STUFF.... gary, i guess u muz be really spending alot of time on soul <br />
    searching recently... i wonder u if will really read my msg.. hmmm juz wanna let u know, <br />
    no matter hu u appear to be like in front of the media, the fans etc.. u r always showing <br />
    the most sincere n true side of u.. n that will be enough liao k.. muz take gd csre of <br />
    urself.. n hope to see ur msg soon.. hopefully, u will be more cheerful by then..
  • pinblue
  • Just be yourself in front of your fans bcos we <br />
    already know u smoke n drink .just be the real <br />
    gary , or else u will be another person .but <br />
    usually u cant be yourself in front of media cos <br />
    image is always very important, but this type is <br />
    always not your usual self. As for my problems , <br />
    im the type of person who always like to act <br />
    strong in front of my frens n colleagues but <br />
    actually im veri soft inside .i tend to control my <br />
    feelings inside , when at night then cry out . <br />
    bcos i don't want people to think im good to <br />
    bully . <br />
    <br />
    Pin (GFC)(^_^)
  • i know its hard to be urself 100% all the time.<br />
    but human will be always the same like you said.<br />
    so uu jus cant blame urself for being that.<br />
    uu cant smoke and drink is because ur company doesnt <br />
    want uu to have a bad image infront of ur fans.<br />
    jus try to be urself whenever uu can okie?.<br />
    and we jus simply love the way uu are.<br />
    <br />
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  • poetcat
  • Iguess you felt you're losing youself at outward especially the midia?Maybe <br />
    you need times to ralaxe and try to get with the problem.<br />
    You shoule find someone you trusted and express your mood and feelings to him <br />
    or her.<br />
    When feeling things are out of control or wandering to make a choice,<br />
    stress comes out for us. If you could come down and rational facing the <br />
    barrier you met, maybe after this hard period, you'll get more ability to <br />
    suffer those pressure and difficulties in the future, it means, you're <br />
    changing(蛻變)and growing into a higher stage of the life.<br />
    <br />
    ㊣*加油*㊣.....<br />
    seeing you're in bad mood, we feel sorrow as well...<br />
    you'll be okey, right?<br />
    we are all waiting for you...<br />
    for your getting better and your smile,<br />
    <br />
    *the sun shine Gary, the superman Gary .<br />
  • j8533996
  • everyone will like to be themselves at all times... we don't like to put up <br />
    a false front to everyone... but i can only say sometimes it's out of out <br />
    control... we can only learn to accept... and i think u are doing really <br />
    well to be yourself... as a celebrity, u are put on this responsiblilty of <br />
    public education... that's well u are restricted... i face a similar <br />
    problem some time ago... i think what we need is time and sth... that sth <br />
    that will help you to walk out of your current postion and see it in <br />
    another angle.. it might take some time... be patient and endure!<br />
    <br />
    =jiayou=<br />
  • hui shan
  • this is rather sadden me when i know you smoke. smoke is kinda<br />
    common but if add drinking, you're actually adding burden to<br />
    your health, sweet.<br />
    <br />
    you make good music which is why having a good health is important.<br />
    <br />
    cut down on smoking okay? :)<br />
    <br />
    right now i'm having a hard time tying this down b'cos my right<br />
    hand has been cut by a sharp item just now and it can't seem to<br />
    stop bleeding.<br />
    <br />
    i'm having as much problems as you. *sighs*<br />
    <br />
    hui shan<br />
    GFC<br />
    <br />
  • alpaka
  • gary,<br />
    <br />
    you are pondering over and asking a very good question...<br />
    <br />
    you are in the media industry and whenever you appear on shows there are <br />
    certain constrains because its meadia! there is no solution to it..the fact <br />
    that you are asking these question, it is already showing this is your real <br />
    self.. how many artists are such bold and frank with their struggles?? i <br />
    have never seen many...<br />
    you do have moments for being a genuinely real person and thats when you <br />
    are with your close friends and family members. <br />
    <br />
    gary, if you are not real, the music that you composed would not have <br />
    touched all of your fan friends. really! music is a very powerful tool. it <br />
    reveals who the composer, the lyricist and of course the listeners is. <br />
    simply because we cant make & appreciate music w/o putting 'the music of <br />
    our hearts' into it!<br />
    <br />
    problems in life? of course i have... =)<br />
    <br />
    may the good Lord bless you and keep you!<br />
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  • Me
  • life is about compromise. people liveing in the world all need different <br />
    maskes to gloss over some their weakness, especially being an extrodinary <br />
    people like you. you just putting on different maskes , you still be you!<br />
    Gary can be very strong and no matter which mask you put on, we are always <br />
    here for you! ^^
  • dont worry so much<br />
    <br />
    I like to see your smile because when you smile, that smile always<br />
    <br />
    light my heart. I know you are going through hard times now, and <br />
    <br />
    I feel bad that I cannot do anything for.<br />
    <br />
    I will pray for you with my sincere heart.<br />
    <br />
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